This week, without prompting, my son said "I love you."

Personally and professionally I have had a pretty stellar week.   To start with, my little red haired boy has started talked in phrases, climbing everything, and has become very independent.  Today at work I was actually singing the song that his Fisher-Price vacuum sings, "I'm gonna clean the house today do-dah, do-dah".   He LOVES that darn thing.  I am even getting him a child sized broom for Easter.  I hope his love of cleaning and helping continues well into his teens.(Fingers crossed.)  He also did something truly profound.  He said, "I love you" after I said I said it and he's continued to say it. Loud and clear. (Loud like his mama.)  Ahh - he's growing up so fast.




I welcome all these changes. They are incredible.  However, he is growing up fast and as a responsible parent I want to prepare myself for him becoming a big boy.  I do not plan to be surprised when he wants to actually use my cell phone as a technology device instead of a play phone to call grammy.  I am may be a bit old school, but I think that a person's privacy is important and that includes eager children wanting to have Facebook and Instagram accounts.  As much as I enjoy social media, I too want to maintain my privacy.  However, I am an adult.  I know right from wrong, I know how important being safe in the Internet is, and I do not over share with strangers or friends, Online.  Our children NEED to be taught right from wrong in the physical  and  digital world.  I feel strongly that over sharing  and posting provocative pictures, quotes, and opinions, is  is tacky.  However, when children post personal information on the Internet, it may not only be tacky, but it is extremely dangerous. Unlike eager to please children who are not always aware of their actions,  adults have a responsibility to be knowledgeable parents, role models, and guardians when it comes to Online safety.  So let me ask you, what are you sharing Online?




Have you seen that commercial where the little boys dad tries to give him the keys to a real car as the little boy is playing in his toy car?  The little boy has to think about it and consider if the decision would he good or bad. Would you put your five year old in real car?  I sure wouldn't.  So why would you let your children go play on a vast and unknown place filled with danger, strangers, and violence?  When you let children go Online you could be putting them in danger IF you or them are unaware of how  to be safe Online.


I urge you to visit the Net Smartz web page that is partnered with the Center for Missing and Exploited Children..  This webgage has resources for teachers, parents and guardians, tweens, law enforcement, and kids. The information is reliable, easy to access and proven to be successful as a tool to teach Internet safety. I am not here to argue as to whether or not your child should be on the Internet.  I am here to tell you that when they are on the Internet they need to be safe. Your actions and teaching should speak loudly and clearly.  Lead by example.


If your child, like mine, tells you "I love you" then show them and teach them that you love them back...by being a responsible adult who leads by example.  Show them the I Love Yous by being involved in their day to day life in person and Online and set guidelines and boundaries for safety and privacy on the Internet.  This might even be a good time for you to check your own Online activity and the privacy settings on your favorite social media websites.  

5 Things Children Should Never Share Online

1. Your full name
2. Home address
3. Social security number
4. Name of school, mascot, or location
5. Pictures or photos of myself or my family

How will you show the children in your life that you love them?

It may be Monday, but here's a Fabulous Freebie - Book Bub

I am lucky enough to be surrounded by a fantastic team of librarians, clerks, assistants, teachers, volunteers, and long time library advocates.  People are ALWAYS providing me with suggestions: books to order, movies to see, blogs to read, listservs to join, products to purchase, pages to like, the brilliant ideas are endless.  I L-O-V-E the suggestions.  Some of the best resources I use regularly are from my fellow staffers. 

Today I have one for you.   If you read digital books, I encourage you to sign up for Book Bub.  Book Bub sends you daily emails containing links to discounted and free eBooks that are available for a limited time only. The kind of books offered are remarkable and hit every interest level imaginable: biographies, LGBT, children's, Christian fiction, paranormal romance, horror - you name it and the genre is on this list.  The deals only run for two to three and titles are either free or deeply discounted.  To take advantage of these deals it is essential to have an Amazon.com account, but some additional formats are supported.  (I prefer Amazon because I can read it in my cloud reader, on my Android phone, or on my Kindle.)

Today I download a children's book called Diggy as well as a biography about Nelson Mandella, for FREE.  Most titles are not over $2.99.  When you sign up for the service, you take a survey to help set up preferences so that when you receive your daily message your interests are reflected in the suggestions.  However, you can also go right to the Book Bub page and search for books as well, depending on what kinds of reading mood you are in.

As a busy mom, I don't always immediately get to read the books I 'purchase'.  However, that is the beauty of buying digital content.  Readers can keep the content indefinitely and read it as time permits.  So if you know you're doing to the Dominican with your honey to catch some rays, you can stockpile cheap or free titles and read them when you have a few minutes to relax.  As a public librarian I have to be resourceful, as a mom, wife, and lady, I choose to be resourceful.  Why not give you pocket book a break and sing up.  Let me know how it works out for you. 

Weekly Read - What's a Zizzer Zazzer Zuzz? Happy Birthday Suess!

Dr. Seuss would have been 114 this year.  Wowza.  As my J and I  watched PBS kids TV show The Cat in the Hat Knows A lot About That  this morning with my son I felt a sense of silliness that reminded me of Mr. Geisel's birthday.  Although, I read Dr. Seuss everyday, not as a librarian but as a mom, it was a wonderful reminder and an enjoyable, rare, weekday home with my little poopy.


In honor of Dr. Seuss's birthday, visit the national Read Across America webpage for tons of great activities.  To be honest, these activities can be done any day. If children can see the joy and fun that reading brings for special occasions, why not have that joy in your home everyday.  Twenty years ago, finding last minute fun activities for Read Across America would have required lots of planning and reading.  There was no Pinterest, not all libraries had computers, and finding things easily Online was just not easy.  Today we have no excuse.  


So this week I challenge you to find something joyful to read, whether it is a cookbook, a graphic novel, a slasher mystery, or a sweet church romance.  If you want a wave of silliness to pass over you as well, and you don't have a 19 month old that wants to read Dr. Suess ABC Board Book, ask your grandkids, neighbor kids, or church kids, "have you ever me a Zizzer Zazzer Zuzz?"  What did they say?

Big Read - What book is your local library celebrating this year?

Each year libraries across the country celebrate a community wide reading event called the Big Read.  According the Big Read website, sponsored by the National Endowment for the Arts, "The Big Read supports organizations across the country in developing community-wide programs which encourage reading and participation by diverse audiences."  Sounds like a great idea...because it IS a great idea!


I have proudly been the Big Read leader at our library for the past  two years.  Each month our library, which serves a community of over 30,000 patrons, produces a monthly calendar that lists daily and month long activities.  For the Big Read our calendar is jam packed!  This year we are ALL reading one of the greatest books ever written, F. Scott Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby.  If you haven't read this book, it's an easy read that whisks the reader away(in a fast coupe) to the 1920s.  There's dames, dancing, drama, a giant, and an imperfect flower.  Are you interested in learning more - run to your library, cash in your free book credits on Amazon, or turn on your wi-fi  and learn to download a FREE copy through Overdrive at your local library.  Go ahead, get carried away.  I dare you.


In our library we will be incorporating themes of the Great Gatsby into much of our existing programming.  Like many libraries, our budget and staff hours are tight. Fortunately, we are extraordinarily resourceful and each year we get a few bucks to celebrate and promote this event.  We partner with local groups, use library volunteers and Kabam! - the community gets involved.(And our statistics have been on the rise!)  We'll be having storytimes involving the 1920s, fast cars, and dancing, our craft club will be making flapper style headbands, our Lego Club will be having a coupe car race, we'll be hosting movie nights, and families can win prizes by taking part in a literacy based reading activity.  Reading should be fun and our library staff works hard to spread this excitement and energy.  Your local probably has a few events as well and you can check here.  But I can tell you any library will welcome new faces - maybe take a trip to new library? 


I hope your library has a fun book to celebrate.  If the library is not reading an enjoyable novel, find a library that does.  If you're a real busy bee like me, download a copy of the book into your cloud reader, Nook, Kindle, or audio book.  If you're feeling adventurous, visit a book sale at a library.  Their books are cheap and all the money stays in the library.(At least in our communities it does.)  Maybe you'll meet a friend  who's also BIG on Reading.